Death

I wanted to post this, but separate from my earlier post today...

My ex felt the need to send me a text message that said the following:

"don't know if u wanted to know but Dean die[d] in A car accident last month"

First of all it was a month ago. Since neither this guy or I have kept in contact with each other directly since 1995, I don't see how I would need to or want to know about his death. And I am guessing that if I DID want to know, a month later is a little too late.

Another thing...we should worry about people while they are still alive, when it really matters. When they have died, they have moved on and so should we. When someone has died, it really is too late to say or showed we cared.